Change is inevitable!

All for one and one for all!

Well I guess you knew it was coming...but even when you know it is hard to process at times. It is like when someone is terminally ill, you know they are going to die, you try to prepare yourself, but as you personally know...you are never as prepared as you would hope to be. You are such an adventurer, you love challenges, you are always looking ahead and seem to have all the answers. These are super qualities that I love about you. You make me always feel safe, secure, and confident. So...turn the tables on yourself, look for that adventure that awaits you. Draw on the strength, knowledge and courage that you have fine tuned all these years. You will need to sit down together and talk about everything, lay it all on the table of what is expected, what it reality, and what you are or are not willing to give or sacrifice so that he can live the good life. It will no doubt be a life change for both of you. If will mean that he will need to step up helping around the ranch. It will mean you learning to have him under foot 24/7, and he will need to get a hobby or work harder on the ranch so he isn't under foot to the point of frustration. I have every confidence in you that you will make it through, that it will be a new and great journey for you, and that you will make the most of it no matter what. That is who you are, you never let a challenge get you down. You never back down from a fight, and you never ever give up. Did I say it would be easy, no way...I face that in a few years and it terrifies me. Will it be worth it, I can't say it will, but the way we react, the way we handle, and the way we deal with it will make all the difference. When the going gets rough, then we get going on an adventure of our own - me & you! Wow, March 15th isn't that far away, I guess you better get going on that big 'talk'. I am here for you to bounce things off or to talk, give me a call. Hey by the way, go see the movie "I bought a zoo", best movie in a long time you will so love it and it will make you feel happy!